How to Configure Ask to Buy for Family Sharing

Difficulty
Beginner
Tested on
iOS 18.4 - iPhone 15 Pro
You will need
Apple ID with Family Sharing enabled, Family Organizer account access

Step by step

  1. 1 min

    Access Family Sharing settings

    Open the Settings app on your iPhone or iPad. Tap your name at the very top of the menu, then select Family Sharing from the list.

  2. 30 sec

    Choose the family member

    Locate the Family Members section and tap the name of the child for whom you wish to enable purchase approvals. You must be the Family Organizer to modify these settings.

  3. 30 sec

    Enable Ask to Buy

    Tap the Ask to Buy option within the child's settings menu. Toggle the switch to the On position to activate the approval requirement for all purchases and free downloads.

    Note: This setting applies to all devices connected to the child's Apple ID.
  4. 1 min

    Confirm notification delivery

    Ensure the device you are currently holding is selected as the primary approver device. Future requests will appear as push notifications on your lock screen and within the Messages app.

  5. 1 min

    Validate the approval flow

    Ask the child to attempt to download a free app from the App Store. When the child taps Get, an Ask to Buy request will be sent to your device for final confirmation.

    Note: Requests expire after 24 hours if not approved or declined.